"Roleplaying" versus "Specificity"

I think a lot of the more obnoxious parts of the blogosphere are stuck in high school or college. They are often arguing in favour of their right to not engage in critical self-reflection. Like, "I want to do things exactly the way I did 40 years ago, and anyone who does anything different is doing badwrongfun," doesn't exactly scream "personal growth."
Yeah, I can see that. I think it's a human trait. You're tastes get set in early adulthood, and when things inevitably change you get mad. The problem is with the anger. Sure the vibe has shifted and now D&D plays without maps (!?!) but...who cares? You have your niche that you like, you're not going to try the newfangled ways, let the young people do their thing and you do your own. Different strokes for different folks.


The Heretic
 
The thing that most annoys me is the constant references to his alcohol use.

To be clear, our own host's many references to being driven to drink by the junk he reads, are on point and STILL very funny. (that said, please don't murder your liver on account of the baying masses, Bryce...)
 
To be clear, our own host's many references to being driven to drink by the junk he reads, are on point and STILL very funny.
I guess humor is subjective. I've usually find said insertions to be either concerning, depressing, or just downright off-topic. When used for emphasis, sure... something is "so bad you need to get shitfaced to read it". Hyperbole and all that. But when I read stuff like "Jesus Christ, even my morning bottel(sic) of gin cant fix this schlomk(sic)", it strikes me as less "funny" and more "pitiful". Like, David Hasselhoff crawling around on the floor searching for a lost cheeseburger and cussing out his daughter, except in blog form. I often wonder if any of it is a cry for help, masked as a module review...
 
I have trouble thinking of a situation where being drunk would be cool. I can think of situations where it would be funny, in a ha-ha-look-at-that-loser sort of way. This might be a generational divide, or it might be the influence my LDS background.

"This module is so bad I had to get shitfaced" doesn't even land, IMO. Makes equally as much sense as "this module is so bad I had to snort a line of coke." But I accept it and carry on, understanding it to be the kind of thing certain Gen-X'ers say and presumably understand.
 
It's ok to not drink, and it's ok to be annoyed or bothered around drunk people. Being around drunk people when you are sober does indeed suck.

But being drunk is fun and feels cool, that's why people do it. That's why alcoholism is a thing. If you've never been drunk, it makes sense as to why you don't see it. It's hard for us to imagine the things we've never been exposed to. From the outside, being drunk makes you act sloppy and looks uncomfortable. But on the inside, booze makes you feel immortal, full of energy, and makes everything sound like an awesome idea. At first...

When the booze wears off, it's decidedly uncool, that's true. Hangovers, regrets, bad tastes in your mouth... the after effects of booze do indeed suck. But people tolerate those after effects because the "during effects" feel just that good.
 
I think for a lot of people, particularly when they are young, the ultimate appeal is the loosening of inhibitions. Not necessarily because you want to do stupid things, but because there are things that you wish you could do when you are sober, but are prevented from doing by your various anxieties. And when you are young, you are very anxious.

However, it is very difficult to maintain a constant level of just-intoxicated-enough over the course of an evening. If you don't keep drinking, you can end up with an early onset hangover which wipes you out for the evening. If you keep going, you are likely to get more drunk than just enough. And once you get more drunk, if you are in a place where you feel safe and with people you enjoy, it can be really fun to be stupid together. Again, having the time to stay up late is something you are more likely to have when you are young and/or single and childless.

And when you are young, you often don't get hangovers unless you drank a lot. So you start out with large benefits and a small downside. As you get older, the benefits shrink and the downside grows. If you are not an alcoholic, you probably just drink less frequently and less at a sitting. If you are still trying to chase the way it used to make you feel, or if you drink to numb your emotional pain, and/or if you have a dependency, then you may continue drinking, to your detriment.

All that being said, I'm not going to speculate on whether our host actually drinks the way he says he does, or whether it is a schtick. Although if he does drink like that, and still somehow manages to read and review three probably shitty modules a week, in addition to earning a living, that's actually kind of impressive, in a horribly unhealthy way.
 
honestly, I'm pretty sure the past million generations of western humanity probably exist thanks to alcohol. strong correlation between Millenials/GenZ not drinking and not fucking...

But yeah, the older I get, the more horrible the effects of alcohol (also WEED! How could you betray me like this, bruh?!). I used to have to do shots-shots-shots-shots! down at the boomboom bar to get blackout and go home with something questionable, now I'm like 2-3 tallboys of the local pisswater away from holding forth on a bunch of race/sex/age/able-ist opinions I didn't know I had before being carted home by a concerned friend/angry wife. I then spend the next day with crippling headache and malaise and the day after recovering from the headache and malaise (and apologizing to people for whatever dumb shit I said). Stupid metabolism, I miss just getting witty and charming and happy :(
 
A lot of it depends on the situation too.

Getting drunk at a club is a must. Getting drunk at a bar is advised. Getting drunk at a party is a good idea, depending on the party. Getting drunk alone is sad, and a sign of bigger problems.

Also as 1True says, unless you're an alcoholic, your urge to over-drink kind of falls off the older you get, because a hangover lasts a whole week instead of just a single morning. I found the tipping point for this transition to be around age 30. I still drink fairly regularly at 40 (I'm a bit of a beer snob), but I've gotten drunk exactly once in the past decade, because I drink at most 3 cans of well-paced beer in an evening, versus the 10 cans of cheap stuff I would have chugged back in college.
 
... now I'm like 2-3 tallboys of the local pisswater away from holding forth on a bunch of race/sex/age/able-ist opinions I didn't know I had before being carted home by a concerned friend/angry wife.:(
Lol. Some inhibitions are good, actually.

I've more or less hit a point where drinking just isn't worth it, unless I'm pairing a single drink with a meal. Even then, there are some pretty good 0% alcohol beers out there, although I have yet to encounter a palatable wine. The last time I had a glass of alcohol wasn't long ago, but I can't remember the time before that.
 
Lol. Some inhibitions are good, actually.

Don't get me started about China, apparently :rolleyes:

Diplomats used to be professional drinkers, now everyone stands around arguing about most-hated airports, and then fail to run over the locals on the way home. Where's the fun in that?!
 
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